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maybe is nothing wrong and nothing good.
The society we live in has some common values.
Good and bad are mainly judged after these values.
I consider they are not necessarily right. That doesn't mean extreme is good.
Problem is extreme is kinky ..but the more kinkyer is it the more u get fucked.
It's quite simple : sooner or later.
I'd prefer sooner - 'cause later is way harder. :)